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When it comes to receiving oral sex, many women's default position is to get on their backs. And there's a lot to be said for that: You can relax and let your partner worry about what to do. But there's also a lot to be said for receiving oral on top, AKA face-sitting. For one thing, it puts you in complete control, and some women find that it also provides a better angle. If straddling your partner's face sounds intimidating, we get it. If you've never tried face-sitting, it can feel incredibly vulnerable.
Here's how to try it without feeling totally out of your comfort zone. Are you game for trying? Now that you're both in, time for the logistics. The first hurdle is figuring out how to get into position. Mintz recommends the following process: First, straddle your partner's chest with your knees on the bed, scooting forward until their head is between your thighs, and spreading them until your partner's mouth can reach you. It's actually pretty comfortable once you get the hang of it. To make balancing easier, Marin recommends having your partner lay down near the head of the bed and putting your hands on the headboard or wall for more support.
That way, you won't be worrying about keeping your balance and can instead focus all of your attention on your pleasure. The nice thing about receiving oral sex on top is that, much like any position that puts you on top, you can control the pressure by moving closer or further away from your partner, says Marin.
Lower or raise your body when you want to experience more or less sensation. If you want complete control, you can ask your partner to stay still with their tongue out while you experiment with different motions.
Marin recommends slowly grinding your hips back and forth or around in circles over their face. Alternatively, if you want the feeling of being in control while still having your partner do all the work, you can just sit there and relax, says Jess O'ReillyAstroglide's resident sexologist.
If full-on face-sitting freaks you out, you can try one of these intermediate positions, says O'Reilly: Have your partner lie down near the edge of the bed and put one foot on the bed and one on the ground, or get on all fours with your crotch near their mouth and face away from them. One worry some people have about face-sitting is that they could squish their partner's face, says Mintz. This is pretty unlikely to happen, since you can hold yourself up with your thighs.
But if you're concerned about it, you can create a al for your partner to communicate when they need a break, like tapping your thigh or butt. A al like this can be useful to communicate in general since your partner's mouth may be, er, busy. Just as there is more than one way to receive oral sex, there's more than one way to face-sit. Mintz recommends experimenting with facing away from your partner as well as facing toward them and seeing which you like best.
The idea of being on display in this way might make some people uneasy, but chances are your partner is enjoying it. Or try blindfolding your partner and moving your body closer to or away from their mouth. All that said, if getting oral sex on top does not appeal to you—or you try it and aren't a fan—no need to do it.
If it sounds a bit scary but doable, give it a try. You might love it. By Christine Copp a and Suzannah Weis s. By Suzannah Weis s. By Melanie Hamlet t. Topics oral sex orgasm sex tips. Good Sex.Woman riding mans face
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